About this Event
Chemsex is the use of any combination of drugs that includes crystal methamphetamine, mephedrone (and other cathenones) and/or GHB/GBL -s pecifically for the purposes of gay sex. It is syndemically associated with some recent and dramatic changes that affected the experience of gay sex and pleasure;
new technologies/online gay hook-up culture (not exclusive of sauna/bathhouse culture)
the impact HIV/AIDS has had on the experience of gay sex and pleasure
changes in laws and societal attitudes toward gay sex specifically, (homosexuality generally)
Buddies of New Jersey, Inc,
to be allowed to serve everyone in our community and every color of the rainbow…
This bulletin is to honor gay pride month in a time of social distancing. Included are some dates and events that are worth knowing about, some pride activities, educational opportunities, sexual health resources,and recognition of LGBTQIA+ accomplishments.
May we follow the lead of our Founder, Franklin A. Smith who was proud to be able to provide support, services and resources for people living with and affected by HIV/AIDS before there was even a penny provided to do so. I am so proud of Frank as well as others, both LGBTQIA+ Persons and Allies, because of the kindness and generosity given so that others may have life and live it with dignity.
FROM SUNDAY JUNE 7th
THE ANNUAL JERSEY PRIDE CELEBRATION
has been moved to October 22nd provided we are able to do so
PRIDE FLAG RAISING | Thursday June 18th
10AM @ the Harrsison House &
2PM @ the Gazebo of the Bergen New Bridge Medical Center
Supreme Court finds federal law bars LGBT discrimination in workplace
Two of the court’s Republican appointees joined the court’s
Democratic appointees to deliver the surprising, 6-3 victory to LGBT advocates.
THE OCEAN GROVE HEALTH RETREAT IS SLATED TO BE CHANGED
and unless we have a safe way to do so in person…
the plan is for VIRTUAL RETREAT October 28th to 31st
ENDING WITH A HALLOWEEN MIXER ON 31st more info. TBA.
Newark Pride planned for July 19
Jersey City Pride Still Planned for August
EVENTS, LINKS, ITEMS OF INTEREST
PRIDE MONTH – Right now many organizations are rearranging themselves to change schedules. We had to cancel our annual participation in Jersey Pride next weekend, as well as the Ocean Grove Health Retreat, and other events in the foreseeable future. Event cancellation does not mean we should cancel or postpone LGBTQIA+ Pride in any way, just how we normally celebrate it. So, be creative celebrate this JUNE, GAY PRIDE MONTH as you see fit.
30 DAYS OF PRIDE HERE is a brief consideration and 30 DAY GUIDE of how we can all celebrate PRIDE in a different, deep way.
FOOD DISTRIBUTION – SATURDAYS JUNE 13th and 27th, in addition to our current schedule, we are making food and essential items available to the first 500 families. ANYONE IN NEED IS WELCOME to come with a NJ State ID or DL, a face mask, and being able to follow social distancing guidelines.
Let’s Talk About Risks WEBINAR SERIES
Eric Cabrera from Buddies of NJ will be the profession guest speaker
during our highlighted discussion on Stage-based Counseling Strategies.
We’ll see you NEXT Wednesday, June 10th from 11am-12:30pm
BLACK LIVES MATTER is a slogan that Buddies of New Jersey embraces and can profess whole hardheartedly! Please stay safe and avoid behavior that can increase the spread of COVID-19 or hurt others as we proudly express this core belief.
GAY PRIDE SURVEY – How Do We Celebrate Pride
DONAY’S HILLWALKERS – Donay, the salsa instructor from 2019 Kickoff Party for the NJ AIDS WALK, is starting a group of people who will do modified hill-walking at their own pace on Sunday Mornings in Bergen County. For more information, contact: Donay Wilford <email@example.com>
GAY PRIDE FUN QUIZZES at quote tv
TRANS LIFE – CLICK HERE to find out about groups in your area. PATHWAYS meets at Buddies of NJ when covid restrictions are not in place.
VIRTUAL SPEED DATING at SELF SUPPORT GROUP | Monday – June 29th
We will try a virtual speed dating … questions will be fun … but will also help us practice how to discuss difficult topics with a potential partner. SIGN UP HERE
HIV COMMUNITIES FEEDING OTHERS IN NEED – Read this article from TheBody Magazine featuring our own Xio Mora-Lopez. CLICK HERE
A fun night of fashion. An event you won’t want to miss!
This Friday, February 1st, BLOKE Underwear and Fragrances is having an Underwear Release Party at Club Feather’s. They have chosen to share the proceeds with with us, Buddies of New Jersey, an HIV/AIDS Service Organization that gives much back to LGBTQIA Communities in means of HIV Services and Prevention, Substance Abuse and Addiction Services, Mental Health Counseling, Peer Support Groups, Food Pantry and more…
Hope to see you all at Club Feathers. Doors open at 9 Party begins at 10. Dancers to model the underwear included.
77 Kinderkamack Rd
River Edge, NJ 07661
Gay Men’s HIV Awareness Summit
New Jersey’s HIV Planning Group’s (NJHPG) Committee presents the 4th Annual Gay Men’s Awareness Day Summit!
- Biomedical Intervention: TASP (Treatment As Prevention) for Those Living With HIV | PrEP for HIV- people who want to stay HIV-
- Healthy Sexuals: Use healthier sex options; talk about sex before engaging in it; get tested and know status; fully consent to sex; understand prevention; use condoms; choose PrEP; choose abstinence; engage in outercourse; have fun; don’t have shame; care and respect themselves as well as their partners; and more…
- U=U (Undetectable = Untransmittable)
“The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) “Dear Colleague” letter confirms that “people who take ART daily as prescribed and achieve and maintain an undetectable viral load have effectively no risk of sexually transmitting the virus to an HIV-negative partner.”
Based on #ScienceNotStigma
HIV Prevention Revolution
Equal Access to the
“Last month, the global medical and scientific community at the forefront of HIV research and care came together in Paris for the ninth International AIDS Society Conference, where they announced – unequivocally – that an undetectable HIV viral load means HIV is untransmittable.”
LGBT Expo | 10 | 12 pm to 5 pm DAY 2 CLICK HERE TO JOIN US
Paterson – Passaic County Bergen County HIV/AIDS Services Planning Council has obtained a table for the purposes of outreach to LGBT Community. It was quantified that 37% of pre-registrants of past years were from NJ and that this year they are expecting nearly 40,000 participant due to free admission and ticketing. All Ryan White providers and clients from the TGA are invited to join by filling out this form. There will be limited transportation provided for those who will staff the entire weekend. All else are responsible for there own transportation.
GO HERE: https://thelgbtexpo.com/tickets/ for FREE tickets and more info on the EXPO
FRIDAY – AUGUST 11, 2017
Presented by: The Hackensack Dept. of Cultural Arts, Randy G. Music, LLC TRI-ARC CDC & Buddies of NJ, Inc.
FEATURED MUSICAL ENTERTAINMENT BY DJ STEVE SIDEWALK
Scheduled Performances by: the Destiny Devine Experience, Amazn’ Grace, Trans Francisco, Jack DeLuca Gross and more…
Host of After Party: Club Feathers
Buddies of NJ, Inc, – Tyler Clementi Foundation – Garden State Equality – Bergen County, Bergen Family Center, the Clothes Line Project – the County of Bergen – Christ Epicopal Church, Hackensack
SPONSORS HELP BRING QUALITY ENTERTAINMENT provide necessary promotional resources for the event!
Please REPLY if your Business or Organization wants to Sponsor Entertainment and/or Print Material or Giveaways.
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